Tuesday, August 04, 2009

[like] vs [love]

Loving and liking someone is different... (nonsense)

We can like many people...
But we must only love one person (only for boy-girl relation...)
Except for the parental love la...
We can love our friends too...

We like the person because we share similar interests and characteristics...
Loving someone is when you know you will always like him/her..
No matter what...
You'll just do everything to make him/her happy..
No matter what happens...
You'll still like that person...
No other reason for you not to like him/her...
So, that's LOVE...

However, many people have the wrong perception towards love...
They think loving someone is owning that person..
Not really though...

For me, when I love someone...
I'll be satisfied enough to hear from him/her...
No point for me to make my life difficult just because I didn't get the answer from the person..
Just let the relationship grow naturally...
And be happy when loving someone...

If you think it is unworthy to continue loving that person when you can't be with him/her...
Then you are actually only liking that person, not love...

In short, love is forever...
If you had met your true love...
Just try your best to love...
However, if you really can't wait to own a person instead of loving someone..
Then try to love another person who you can own him/her...

(PS: Love is wonderful...don't make it ugly because of jealousy or dissatisfaction)

8 sharings~:

Anonymous said...

that's is what i am doing now, isn't it? lol

slliew said...

well...of cause if you like or love someone, you will trying to make her/him happy instead of keep on disturbing her/him right??? it can be apply in friend too, mean that you will happy once your friend happy and be ready to lend a hand when your friend need help...(see condition and the trust between you and your friend)

lastly wishing you can handle all the things that faced by you now and remember that your grandpa will always be your good audience o...!!!

[P]inky[D]og said...

haha...sure...

Elsie said...

you are absolutely right.... agree with you gal...
loving is not owning....
for me, smiles will always on my face if i know the person i love is happy............
anyways....
wish ya Good luck in final exam...

Justin Ho said...

Well, I think part of you thinking towards love is wrong. If you not try to start the Boy-Gal relationship, the one who love you how to show you how much he or she love you? It is hard to show if just a normal friend relation. The love level would not get deeper or increase..Actually you dunno that person is love or like, but please give him a trust..one and a half year friendship..you not trust him?

[P]inky[D]og said...

(elsie) good luck for u too..^^
(justin)aiyo..nt gd to start the boy-girl relationship simply when you don't understand tat person...I think time will prove everything...for the love which cnt handle the time challenges, it'll nt last long, my dear...(learn from miss V, haha..)

Chang Tzun Ern said...

fuyoo..what Like vs Love again??
Haiz...haha..(kei kei 1 la)
walao...
i just noticed ur profile didnt put my name that link to my profile de...
haiz..really bo xin de...

[P]inky[D]og said...

(tzun ern)added liao la..Cz i can find ur blog at michelle thr ma...so din put lo...