Sunday, October 18, 2009

Be steady...

I believe most of us had ever being hurt by the people around us...
No matter the person is your parent, sibling, relative, friend and mostly your beloved one...
So, what should we do when we are hurt???

First, sad, cry...
Second, complain, say everything bad about that person...
Third, try your best to say something hurt them, pay triple back to them...
Whatever you do...
If you really love that person...
You'll not do anything bad to him/her...right???

Please la...
Be steady ma...
I am sure most of us are matured enough to handle all these things...
First, we should examine what is the main problem...
No matter whose fault it is...
Don't hurt anyone...
Try to think back, is it my own fault???
If it is really the other person's fault, yet he/she still don't want to apologize...
Then just let it be...
At least you are not wrong...

No thing will happen suddenly, without reason...
Everything happens with its own reason...
Maybe the other person had really given you tons of chances...
Yet you never treasure it..
So, when you lose the chance...
Don't blame anyone...
Chances will never stay there forever for you alone...

The other fact is, when the person hurt you, the person might not know he/she had hurt you!!!!
So, communicate properly, don't cry alone and pek chek by yourself...
Because that person might not feel a bit of sadness inside his/her heart...
However, if the fact is already there...
Just accept it and bless the person...
Because no matter how long you cry for...the fact will not change anymore...
So, be steady when we face any problems...
So that we can have a happy life...
Cheerz!!!!

3 sharings~:

Anonymous said...

bless you that everything will be just fine, no matter what happens you must have faith in yourself.

Han said...

haha~ wont la... different ppl different way communicate... if he think tat tat u hurt him than better dun lo... bcz he dun noe how to think lo... if he noe how to think sure hv be 2gether de... ^^

Brad said...

Good and thoughtful post :)
Brad