是时候回到原点了

看看我最后一次写部落格的日期。
证明了什么？

自从我消失在我所设立的部落格，
发生了我生命中很大的转变。

在这期间，我找到了我以为将会是最疼爱我一辈子的人。
我们的感情一向来都不错。
最近看了一部练续剧， 《唐伯虎怒点秋香》。
虽然这部戏已经发行有一段时间了，
却让我从中找到了我生命中的共鸣。

很多时候，不是你情我愿，
彼此有爱意， 一起经过风风雨雨，
就命中注定在一起。

很多时候，不是互相迁就，
自己包容，容忍，忍让，
就可以长相厮守。
让我体会到，有情人不一定终成眷属。

在戏里，唐伯虎对秋香一见钟情。
堂堂一位才子，牺牲自己的形象，
为了男女私情，
到秋香主人那里当男丁。

经过了多少挫折与难题，
他们俩终于有机会在一起。
最终却发现大家志向不同。
彼此为了抓紧自己的人生目标，
宁愿放弃彼此的感情。
不强求对方，
只愿他爱的她幸福快乐。

虽然放弃一段刻骨铭心的感情很痛苦，
但，若你是真的爱他，
就该以他的幸福为中心。

不要日后勉强在一起了，
因为大家的思想，观念，性格与志向的差别，
最终换来的只是争吵，怨恨，烦恼与其他一些不必要的痛苦。

到最后，唐伯虎还是坚持自己的人身目标，
秋香还是一样留在他身边共同进退，
双方都知道自己的问题，
毫不勉强地，
当他们之间找到了共识，
才决定在一起。
这样，对大家都有利无弊。

爱情是不能勉强的，
更不能占为己有，
如果你真的爱他，
就要确定他的未来是幸福的。
分开了，也还是朋友。
再怎么说，大家都爱过，
所谓多一个朋友，好过多一个敌人。

希望大家要爱得对，不要乱爱哦！

Dogs eat COCONUT...

Let's see...

What is "she" doing??

Why are they "standing"???

Wow...biting coconut...

"She" looks cute when eating coconut...

These are not just normal coconut...
It smells nice with the fragrant of pandan...

Here it is..
The man who prepare the coconut for our doggies...
He's my dad..

Thank you, daddy...
It's yummy...haha...

Natural poses of CATS~~~

I love DOGS!!! and I like CATS...

Recently, I went to a garden frequently...
Each time I reach there, I'll try to look for these two cats...
"They are always there, at the same place...

See!!! Here they are...
Always posing differently...
At different angle...
Maybe they are models in that area huh???

Their relationship with each other is really close...

Whenever the white cat was afraid (scared by a coward wild dog)...
The black one will go forward to protect it...
Really funny to see how a coward dog bully a cat...
Can you imagine that????

The dog ran when it try to draw dear to the cat...
The cat was afraid and don't dare to run...
The process continued for many times...
Boring but funny...

Cool right???

In fact, I can cook~

Wohoo~~ I am a woman...
Being a woman who can cook in the kitchen and work outside is my dream!!!
I not just wanting to be a woman, I want to be a successful woman....
(Wahaha..Vomiting)

Now, let me "show off" what I can do in the kitchen...

I know how to "wrap" this traditional "Chai Kueh" into this triangular shape~~~
With lots of ingredient inside!!!

Fried Tang Hoon...with many many little prawns and a few hot dogs~
To make it special, I didn't boil it with hot water before frying...
It's SALTY!!! And not smooth at all...haha...
But still nice to eat la...

This one..hmm...What should I call this???
Western Style Blackie Fried Chicken???

Wahaha..actually I'm not the chef for this...
It's Him...He use the soya sause to flavour it..
It smells nice...But, as you can see, it doesn't look good...
Anyway, I just wait for the eating session...
By sitting I can eat so much, nothing I should complain right?

While he was cooking other stuff,
My job is to decorate the food~~~
See!!! How cute they are...
It seems like the one falling on the plate was bullied by the rest...
Wahahahaha...

Ok ok, back to what I had done in the kitchen...
Deng Deng Deng DENG!!!!
These are my first production!!!!

Typical Home-made dinner~~~
Waiseh...Yummy Yummy...

Actually all these are very easy to cook...
Just that the manicai need to squeezed it till your hand "sour" before you can cook...

Oh yeah...My first business and also
the first snacks that I've ever made for my lifetime...
Nice? Want? Order now...
Haha..Kidding...It really taste great!!!
Believe me!!!!

Overall, I think I've addicted to cooking...
The only concern of mine is the final step!!!
The cleaning job~~~~
Hmph, I can cook but...
I really hate washing all those utensils!!!

New style of wearing watch????

It's normal to wear our watch on our wrist...





Look at this...


What is the time now?





Huh??? Quite convenient too right?haha....

睁一只眼，闭一只眼

在感情生活里，一定要“睁一只眼，闭一只眼”，才能持之永恒。
我在想：如果真的是这样，这还叫真爱吗？
两个人在一起，不是应该坦诚相对的吗？
不是不分彼此的吗？
不是凡事都能解决吗？

再想一想，如果真的要睁一只眼，闭一只眼
那么，我不是很笨，很吃亏？
我才不要委屈自己啊！！！

当日子久了，轮不到你说要不要。
你只能顺着去做，听天由命了
何必那么执着呢？
最终，只会伤人伤己。
问题也不会有句点。

有许多事情，我们只能看开点，
如果看清事情的真相，或许你会吃不消。
这就是所谓的“睁一只眼，闭一只眼”！！！

因此，让我们放开胸怀，
FORGIVE AND FORGET 吧！
快乐自然会多一点，
生活必定会自在点！！！

你值得被爱吗？

通常，我们都会觉得失恋是件痛苦末极的事。
搞得自己废寝忘食，值得吗？

无论是对方变了心，
或是自己选择放弃，
当爱不再像起初那样，就该结束了。
免得伤己伤人。
尽管再继续拖下去，
渴望能回到起初，
一切都已经太迟了。

在感情的世界里，
没有谁对谁错，
只因爱已消失。

何谓真爱？
真爱经得起时间的考验。
在中学时期的爱情只不过是个玩意儿。
有多少人能把中学情人当着终身伴侣？
随着岁月增长，思想成熟，经济稳定，
才能给你爱的人最好的爱情。

现代人，正常的恋爱期为短短的三个月。
过后便移情别恋，换个对象。
那又有什么益处呢？
爱一个人，是愿意等待。
与其享受那又短又不切实际的爱情，
何不耐心等待那海枯石烂的真爱。
哈哈。。。

如果那你所认为的最佳伴侣说：我们暂时不要在一起，等到我们长大了才在一起好吗？？？
你会有什么反应？
你会觉得：既然如此，我还是先找别人，过后再找回你，免得浪费我的青春。
还是在想：既然如此，我会用尽心去了解，在乎你，直到我们成熟的日子。
在这恋人未满的过程里，是最佳的试炼期。
考验两人的爱能坚持多久。
若有其中一方移情别恋，
你就知道那人并不值得你去爱！！！
当然，当时间成熟后，你将会得到永恒的爱情。
所以，朋友们，不要浪费时间在无谓的爱情里。
好好寻找你的真爱吧！！！